Hi my fans who always waiting for me to post a new story of my life!
Many things happen on me.
You know what? Few days ago, I took a decision that really scare me will bring much changes on my life. Yes, promotion at work.
I just think if I get promotion, I should stay longer because I have more responsible with my new role. But, come on! The chance comes only once, not twice! So, why I don't take this good chance and learn how to be more responsible. Some big things always scare you, huh?
Anyway, what I wanna tell you here is......... about 'The art of live alone'.
After many years live alone, eat alone, wake up and quiet, sleep and no one tell you good night, sick and you should survive alone, some pipe broken and you should fix alone and only have phone to connect with your love one. I used to be live alone.
Like last night, I really really feel sick. I'm not a type of person who cancel promise because of my condition. I feel sick since morning, but I have appointment with my friend to have breakfast together, I didn't want to cancel our appointment and I forced myself to go out and make a lil suggestion if it will be alright and I will recover soon after hang out.
But then, the reality is, I feel worse after arrive at my room. I really really need to see the doctor or my usual therapist. My boyfriend can't take me to both because his house is 1 hour distance from my boarding house. So, he said to wait till the next morning, I can't wait, I feel very sick and can't wait. So, what do you think I do? I ride my motorbike and come to see the therapist. My friend just said "If I were you, I gotta wait my boyfie till next morning, I just can't bring motorbike in that condition" and you know what I said? "Sorry, I'm not that kind of woman, I'm used to be live alone, so, I know how to be survive."
Another example, my aircon at boarding house is broken, need a long time for the owner of boarding house to fix it up. I can't sleep without aircon in such a long time. Hot! I went to carrefour and buy a new fan. The storekeeper asked me question, "So, maam, would you like to install all components of fan here? Or you want to do it by yourself at home?" And I answered him, "Hmm, I can install by myself.", He said again, "Really? For sure? You will not call me just want to ask where's the position for one of the component, right?" I answered strickly, "Come on, I can handle this, this is like a piece of cake!" And I just need 3 minutes to make all components become a real standing-fan! Hah! I told you, mr. storekeeper, I can handle this! #ProudMelisa
So, based on above examples, I wanna said if become independent is fun! You don't rely to someone else. You are free. You are not afraid of being alone because when you alone, you can truly speak to ur inner self. You become fearless. You learn many methods to survive in this world. You will become such a charming girl like me :p Hahaha
Alright girls, come out and see the world, world is not all about love, cry and prom but world is about free, be you and independent. Make yourself free. While you become independent, you could easily live well, eat well and dress well.
Enough for today! I hope you enjoy this post.
See you!
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