woman logic

good night, guys!
Actually I have a big task to do this evening.
I need to make a presentation but I stuck on my blog page and thinking to write something in my brain right now.

All women always lie to her friend, family, couple even to herself. We always say 'No' when we want to say 'Yes'. Some men want to approach me and know me better. But, I always make them confuse with my logic. For example,

1. I love surprise. Give me a surprise and you will officially made my day! Don't need a big surprise, you don't need to bring gold or diamond for me, just simply bring a bouquet of flower or chocolate and I will be very happy!

2. I get jealous easily. When you become mine, no one can get into your eyes. I really don't like a man who approach me and at the same time, he also wants to know about my girl friends; i.e : added them on social media. So far, there is a man who try to approach me. When he asked me out, I always have an appointment with my friend. When we get opportunity to go together, we talked a a lot about everything including my friend who always go with me. In the back home, I told him my friend's boarding house, he said "I don't want to know her boarding house, I don't care about her, I just care about you." 100 points for you, man! You know exactly how to make me smile.

3. Hug me when I'm sad. For now, I believe if I am an independent woman who don't need a man. But, there is a point where I can't stand alone and need a shoulder to cry, someone to talk and someone to hug. If you can't give me an advice, simply be quiet and give me a hug. It's more than enough.

4. When I said 'No', please make sure if I really mean it because sometimes, I said 'No' just to see your effort. How far you really love me? If you are a typical 'follower man', I'm so so sorry if I will not really interest in you.

5. Last but no least, love me with your whole heart and I will do the same. I am not typical a girl who will cheated on you. If I really bored with you, I will tell you. If someone attract me, I will ask you to break up rather than cheated on you.

Is it confusing? I think you will said 'yes' hahaha it's okay, sometimes, I don't stick with the logic too. Logic always change based on his personality. Soo, is it the time for me to finding 'jodoh'? Hahaha

Adult Life

Hi!
Tonight, I want to write a post about adult life.
Day by day, I realized if adult life means forget about all your dreams and accept reality.
Hard to believe, but that's the fact :)

While in college, I have bunch of dreams. I want to get scholarship abroad, have my own company, travelling with own money and marry a man who I love after finish enjoy single life.
In reality, I must satisfied and grateful with my current condition; I just too lazy to looking for scholarship opportunity and accept work chance in Bali. Day by day, I really enjoy with work life and forget about scholarship abroad. I wanna have my own company but too bad, I am afraid to open my own business. All started from many questions in my brain; "How if the business isn't success?"; "How if I take the wrong step with leaving my current job and start my business?"; and all those questions make me afraid to open my own business. I also want to travelling with my own money; in reality is I can't take my day off or annual leave whenever I want. I don't have time to enjoy my holiday. Also, I can't wait too long to looking for a man who serious with me. I'm not young anymore, I become older day by day. So, this is time to looking for someone who really serious to become my future.

Aaah, all dreams from my college life must be replace with reality. I agree with one of quote from Kurt Cobain (If I'm not wrong) ; Nobody die virgin, because life always fuck us.
Well said! Hahaha

But, I really grateful with my current condition because I know, God give something that I need, not I want. So, I believe with His plan on my life.
I want to make a plan and let God do the rest. Plan will starts with simple action, for example : my plans till the next 2 weeks are focus to stay away from negativity (always start your day with positivity), eat less meat (in order to become Vegetarian). stop using rude words when angry with someone, don't be too addictive with social media and watch my sleep time (in order to get much sleep)

Good night all. Don't forget to always grateful and put God first. Follow your plan and God will help you to achieve them.

Thing I hate the most.

Hi, good people!
Good evening from Bali.
Today is my day off and I have a very un-productive day.
All I did this whole day only sleep and eat and repeat hahaha
By the way, this post wants to discuss about something that I don't like :

You chat someone, they don't reply or read but they appear in other social media.


It happens! It really happens! Someone could be annoying like that.
Could you imagine if you are in the sender position who waiting desperately to get reply urgently but they post something in other social media like your chat is lost in black hole.
I know we can't push someone to be like us. I always hold  my phone, this because I live far away from my family and always keep contact with them, even in Line message or phone call. If my family called me and I am not pick up, they must be think I'm in dangerous situation (HAHA! my mom always thinks like this, come on mom, I'm 23 this year!). Everyone isn't same like me, they probably don't with their phone every time or maybe, they are not phone addicted like people this recent day.
BUT....

Please! If' you are not phone addicted or typical of people who don't hold their phone every single time, don't ignore someone's message and having fun in other social media. At least, why you don't read that message? Leave them a clue if you already read the message.

So, I made decision. If someone ignores my message and they appear in other social media, the message in their chat application will be the last message that I ever send to them. If you make me feel unimportant, I could be like you. Remember, I'm not the girl who hold revenge, I just want make you feel like you do to me. Fair enough? :p

The conclusion is treat people like you want they treat you. As simple as that.
Good night and see you :)

xoxo,

Melisawu